Important Weather Update:
Update on the Sexuality Conference on Friday, January 5th:
Montclair University has a delayed opening so we are moving the check-in and start time. Check-in will be at 10:00am and the conference will begin promptly at 10:30. We have some great presenters and are confident you will get a great deal of valuable information in the time we have together. Please remember that parking is in the Red Hawk deck and it’s a five minute walk to University Hall. Thanks!
We will keep you posted with emails and posts to our Facebook page and website if any further changes occur.
This conference will feature an interdisciplinary team of presenters who will discuss a variety of topics including:
8:00am - 9:00am Check in and Breakfast
9:00am - 10:15am Session 1: Identifying the need for Sexuality Education for Individuals with ASD/DD
Bobbie Gallagher, BCBA
In this session, the audience will learn about the missing educational opportunities for individuals with ASD/DD and how this may lead to other challenges including: inappropriate sexual behaviors, incarceration, and/or victimization. Additionally, looking to the future, what strategies should be included to increase appropriate sexual behaviors, including understanding boundaries of oneself and others, identifying appropriate space for masturbation behaviors, and healthy friendships/relationships.
10:15am - 10:30am Break
10:30am - 11:45am Session 2: Accessing Appropriate Sex Ed From Public Schools and State Agencies
Hillary Freeman, Esq.
Attendees will learn about how to identify individual's needs and access supports under the IDEA and Section 504 of the Rehabilitation Act. Methods to challenge school districts and state agencies when they fail or refuse to respond appropriately will also be discussed.
11:45am - 12:45pm Lunch
12:45pm - 2:00pm Session 3: Sex Education as Abuse Prevention: Why It is Important to Be Informed about Sexual Violence and Supports for Survivors
Melissa Keyes DiGioia, CSE and Tracy A. Higgens, MA, LPC
People with intellectual and developmental disabilities are particularly vulnerable to experiencing exploitation and sexual violence. In this session, attendees will learn about factors that contribute to vulnerability and ways to support a survivor of sexual violence. Attendees will also learn about counseling and educational programming that aims to build people’s awareness of sexual violence, abuse prevention, and support for survivors.
2:00pm - 2:15pm Break
2:15pm - 3:30pm Session 4: Sexuality and the Spectrum: Lessons on Sex, Dating, and Love Autism Style
Amy Gravino, MA, CAS
Individuals on the autism spectrum are sexual beings, yet they are often not taught the necessary skills to be successful in romantic relationships. This session features a firsthand personal narrative from a woman on the autism spectrum, and gives an inside perspective on both the triumphs and heartbreaks of young adulthood. The potential for using principles of Applied Behavior Analysis to teach these skills and challenges that may arise in doing so will be addressed, as well as differences between males and females on the autism spectrum and challenges they may face as they encounter adolescence, puberty, and young adulthood. Strategies for professionals and parents to discuss issues and assist individuals on the spectrum in navigating relationships, avoiding victimization, and becoming empowered will also be discussed.
3:30pm - 4:00pm Panel Discussion with Q and A
About the Presenters
Bobbie Gallagher, BCBA
Autism Center for Educational Services (“ACES”)
Bobbie is a BCBA and is currently pursuing her PhD in Applied Behavior Analysis (ABA) at The Chicago School of Professional Psychology (TCSPP). Bobbie is an adjunct professor at TCSPP and the owner of ACES. She is the author of “A Brick Wall: How a Boy with No Words Spoke to the World.” For more than 20 years Bobbie has worked in the field of ABA, speaking nationally to educate others on the needs of individuals with autism spectrum disorder, and for the last six years with a focus in the area of sexuality. Bobbie completed a three hour online training program for the Texas Statewide Leadership for Autism Training to assist in training teachers across the state of Texas on the sexual education needs of those with autism.. As an invited speaker, Bobbie provided a workshop to the New Jersey Probation Officers. Bobbie completed her certification courses at the Florida Institute of Technology, holds a Master’s in Special Education from New Jersey City University, and a BA in Communication Studies from Monmouth University. Bobbie is the mother of three and currently resides at the Jersey Shore with her husband and two adult children with autism.
Hillary D. Freeman, Esq.
Freeman Law Offices, LLC
Advocating for individuals with special needs across their lifespan. Hillary D. Freeman is an Attorney who advocates for individuals with special needs across their lifespan. This includes accessing services from school districts and state agencies; accessing SSI/Medicaid Benefits; Guardianship and/or preparing Estate Plans with Special Needs Trusts. Hillary is deeply committed to her work representing people with disabilities and their families. As the sister of a man with autism, she is able to combine personal experience with her legal training to help families advocate for services and supports. She was named a Rising Star℠ by Super Lawyers & Magazine for 2013, 2014, 2015, 2016 and 2017. She has been honored with Robin Sims Trailblazer Award in 2015 from POAC. She holds a JD from Widener University School of Law and practices in both Pennsylvania and New Jersey.
Melissa Keyes DiGioia, CSE
Co-Founder & Director of Education, Finding Your Individuality, LLC
Melissa Keyes DiGioia, CSE is a Certified Sexuality Educator by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors and Therapists. As Co-Founder and Director of Education, she facilitates professional development workshops and education sessions on varying sexuality and sexual health topics and specializes in program delivery for people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Melissa is author of Taking a Special Education Approach a guide for religious educators implementing Our Whole Lives Sexuality Education for Grades 7-9 (2nd Ed.) to adapt lessons and methodology for audiences with special needs. She is coauthor of Game On! The Ultimate Sexuality Education Gaming Guide and contributing author to Unequal Partners: Teaching about Power and Consent in Adult-Teen and Other Relationships (3rd Ed), Older Wiser Sexually Smarter, and Teaching Safer Sex (Volumes 1 & 2). She has a graduate certificate in Human Sexuality from Montclair State University and received her BA with concentrations in Psychology and Women’s and Gender Studies from The College of New Jersey.
Tracy A. Higgens, MA, LPC
Co-Founder & Director of Education, Finding Your Individuality, LLC
Tracy A. Higgins is an EMDR trained Licensed Professional Counselor and trained Behavior Analyst specializing in sexual trauma and abuse prevention with individuals with developmental disabilities. Ms. Higgins has over fifteen years experience both in private practice and a staff therapist with Morris CARES. She was responsible for the development of specialized services for survivors of sexual violence and at risk adolescents and adults with developmental disabilities. As Director of Counseling for FYI she provides individual counseling for survivors of sexual violence as well as workshops and training to varying agencies, organizations and schools on sexual violence, behavior management, positive communication and social skills development.
Amy Gravino, M.A., CAS
Founder & President, A.S.C.O.T Consulting, LLC
Amy Gravino is a Certified Autism Specialist and the president of A.S.C.O.T Consulting. Amy offers autism consulting, mentoring, and college coaching services for individuals on the autism spectrum. Amy is a professional national speaker who has given two TED talks and presented to numerous audiences on a variety of topics, including autism and sexuality; preventing and ending bullying; issues related to girls and autism; growing up on the spectrum; and autism and transitioning to secondary education. She also currently serves on the Board of the Golden Door International Film Festival of Jersey City, the Self-Advocate Advisory Board for the Daniel Jordan Fiddle Foundation, and co-facilitates the Morris County chapter support group meetings for ASPEN-NJ. Amy's writing has been published in a variety of outlets, including the website The Mighty, the textbook Exceptional Children: An Introduction to Special Education, the Reader’s Digest book The Best Life Stories, “Autism Spectrum Quarterly” magazine, the official blog of Autism Speaks, and more. She is also the author of The Naughty Autie, a memoir of her experiences with dating, relationships, and sexuality from the firsthand perspective of a woman on the autism spectrum.